Week 5 of The Kindness Challenge is all about being grateful.
It’s so easy to wish, want and wonder about a different life. But it’s a fine line between being envious; wishing you had someone else’s life and aspiring to better your own life through hard work and learning.
You can have ambitions whilst accepting and finding enjoyment in where you are right now.
Gratitude is the feeling of being thankful.
After the death of my younger brother, I found it difficult to be thankful or find pleasure in anything. I spent a large portion of my time asking “Why me?” I felt that life was unfair, and was consumed with wishing things were different. I was in a very negative spin.
Every situation – even difficult ones have opportunity for learning, even if we cannot see it at the time. It’s the proverbial every cloud has a silver lining – difficult as that may be to acknowledge.
I survived the difficult times and am now stronger.
I am able to relate to people who are going through tough times because I have been there and have empathy and understanding.
I am clearer on what’s important in my life and therefore live more authenticly.
That is because I am grateful.
I understand that all it takes is a telephone call to change your life. All we have for certain is this moment. When you understand this – you become grateful for the little things.
I post weekly about the little things that make me smile – they’re small moments in the mundane that make me smile and I acknowledge them with a photograph.
That’s the important bit – don’t let the magical moments pass you by.
Make a note of them, journal or photograph or simply list them in your diary at the end of every day.
The more you notice, the more little miracles you will find.
Don’t know where to start? Before you go to sleep think of three things that went well today or before you jump out of bed in the morning, spend a couple of minutes jotting down who or what you were thankful for yesterday.
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